Yikes! Your love relationship can be a rather tense place to be. Your partner may or may not be playing a little footsie with someone else.
Whether it's gone all the way is unclear, but what is crystal clear is the tension it's caused. Pockets are gone through. Emails are intercepted. Phone bills are pored over. It's all so tedious and tacky, isn't it, two lovers treating each other like enemy agents instead of best buddies? Yet the friction keeps erupting. Both of you analyze just about everything the other says and does, seeking hidden meanings. Is that argument really over the laundry, or is it about something deeper?Chill out Sherlock. The problem at the root of all this instability is your insecurity, coupled with your partner's secretiveness. Take these words to heart: no one who is happy will stray. In order to hold on to the one you love, you have to be the kind of person that you'd like to come home to. Don't demand and bluster and question; be the easy, lively you that you are when you're running on all your cylinders. You'll see very shortly that your lover is wooed by your wiles alone.