Friends don't seem so friendly for the pair of you -- it's likely you've had a lot of friction around the issue of pals. You'd like to spend evenings at home or spend your spare time in pursuits that broaden the mind; your lover, on the other hand, just seems to want to hang out. All the time.
With just about anyone? With people, in fact, who's friendship you'd prefer not to spend one iota of free time cultivating. Both of you wish the other would bend, and what's worse is that neither of you can seem to communicate your feelings about such matters in a way the other understands. What you need is more time together, and luckily your sweet companion is more than willing to schedule special dates for you. Take up an activity together that you'll both enjoy -- perhaps something like a dance class, or a course in sensual massage for couples, anything that'll get you to slow down long enough to enjoy yourself as well as book a slot in your lover's busy schedule just for you. More harmony more of the time will help you both to sing in tune.