Remember when you were a kid and you misbehaved and your parents would lecture you? They'd rant on and on until you wanted to jump out a window. Feeling a bit of deja vu with your partner?
Your sweetie is more like a teacher (or yeah, a parent) than an equal, and it bugs you. You don't like anyone telling you what to do, or more importantly, what not to do. You're chafing under the surveillance, and feeling like you might want to wriggle away altogether. After all, you signed up for a love relationship, not life lessons.But hold on there, impulsive one. This is not one of those tissue-paper relationships you can just toss away without thinking. This is something solid, something real, and the only reason your lover tries to guide you is out of concern. You are loved and looked after; so many people would want to be in your shoes. Stop rebelling like the kid you once were. Buckle down and start delivering your very best. Only then will you make both the most of yourself and of a relationship that's irksome simply because it's so challenging.