Your powerful, intense lover turns you on, all right. So much so that you wonder who else has hot pants for your One. Where does your lover go when away from you?
What are all those numbers programmed into your sweetie's cell phone, anyway? Who else has their greedy little eyeballs on your special someone? Thus runs your paranoia, and your secretive lover doesn't give you a whole lot of reassurance, either. When you screw up the courage to question, you're made to feel ridiculous. Or worse, your lover splits, vowing to return when you're acting rationally. But how can you act rationally in the face of your overwhelming jealousy? This is a tough nut to crack, because your insecurities melded with your lover's tendency to withhold both information and affection makes for a sticky sitch. And your own tendency to want to talk things out won't work. Instead, try marshaling your independent streak. Your lover's partial to head games, so play a few yourself. Act like you're calm and collected, and soon not only will you feel that way but your lover will behave better too.