Just one question: Is it uncomfortable in that niche your lover has squished you into? You're a person of big dreams and plans, a little grandiose, maybe, but you do manage to make at least some of your ambitions come to fruition. But whenever you start to talk over your heart's desires with your lover you get squelched.
'Oh, you'll never do that.' 'That's ridiculous.' 'No one would want to buy that.' Sound familiar? Your so-called sweetie tends to see you as flighty and flaky, and to relate to you more like you're a silly child rather than an adult to be taken seriously.It's gotten so you're more apt to share your feelings with someone else besides your loved one, and therein lies the danger. The more you get personal with someone else, the more you'll be tempted to stray. So if you're happy where you are, let it show. Don't let your dour lover get you down, instead, laugh and play and lighten your sweetie up. There's a solid source of support waiting for you if you guys can call a truce in your power struggle.