Are you sitting down? Here's a newsflash: Your lover sees you as a great big wet blanket. Here your sweetie trusted you to be the repository of their most heartfelt of dreams and hopes, and you swoop in with your great grasp on reality and crush it like an ant under a workboot.
It hurts. It's mean. And yet you can't seem to stop doing it, even though you know you're misbehaving. Your lover's sweet, optimistic and certainly stuck on you. But all the drifty dreaminess drives you mad. Meetings go awry, conversations drift off -- how many hours have you spent waiting for your late-again lover to show up?The problem is that you and your sweetie are not particularly well-matched. You are brisk and clever, while your partner is slower and more inspired by emotions than intellect. The key to peace between you is your acceptance of the fact that your way is not the only way. You get things done well and efficiently, but you don't always stop to smell the flowers. Allow your lover to show you the delights of a less driven life, and you'll learn more about yourself even as you settle into a delicious dalliance.