Yakkity yak yak. That's you and your sweetie, big ol' gasbags full of opinions and thoughts and plans and musings, but very little in the way of real understanding of each other. You start out with the intention of working out your problems -- but before too long, a discussion of something personal turns into an exchange of philosophies, and then likely an argument that continues into the night.
On your part, you get annoyed with your lover's grandiose dreams and rather tenuous grasp on reality, while your lover often sees you as nitpicky and harsh, the emotional equivalent of a big bucket of water poured on their parade.Though it may seem that you are swimming in circles, you are actually on a fairly direct path to settled bliss. You and your lover bring out some very interesting qualities in each other. You egg each other on, rev each other up. Though you can get PO'd with each other, all the friction is just as likely to turn you on. And face it -- to you the only fate worse than a tumultuous relationship is a boring one.