Boy, are you two out-of-sync. You're that annoying couple at the party who can't stop bickering over every little thing. You accuse your partner of being too pessimistic, too serious, too stuck in the mud.
Your lover, on the other hand, finds you bossy and overbearing. You disagree over money. You don't approve of each other's career choices. And worst of all, your pairing brings out the greedy, grasping side of both of you. This makes it possible that one or both of you remains in the relationship merely to gain or hold on to money or status, instead of for true love. But there's always an other hand, and yours is overflowing with promise. You had the wisdom to choose a partner who is, as you accuse, serious -- but in the best possible way. Your lover is solid and down-to-earth, and very very worthwhile, if you can find a way to cool off the antagonism that drives you two apart. A suggestion? Stop finding fault. Focus on the qualities and dreams you share, rather than your differences. This is a relationship that's a challenge. But the rewards are more than worth the work.