This is an intense, but not easy, connection. You share a certain power and magnetism, but it manifests itself in different ways. You are the overt one, forcefully reaching for what you want.
Your partner is more secretive and controlled, a Machiavellian schemer if truth be told. This mismatch between you always seems to put you on the disadvantage. While you are honest about your aims and feelings, your mate seems to comply with you until the moment when you realize you've played right into your lover's hands and are being controlled like a puppet. That's when you turn on your mate with snarls, perhaps even violence. This is an explosive combination!But you can't ask your partner to be any different. This is just their nature. Instead, be a little more savvy about always wearing your heart on your sleeve. Maybe it's time for you to learn how to play it a little more cool. Your lover won't be able to tweak your insecurities so expertly if you don't display them. Tune into your own goals. Shift your energies towards taking care of yourself. Your partner will appreciate you more when you are a little less available.