Your needle's stuck in a groove, and it's driving you crazy. You have the same conversations over and over with your lover; the same fights, the same problems. Why can't you solve your issues and just move forward?
The answer lies within your past, and that of your lover. One or both of you may have a history of struggling with addictions or other unhealthy behavior patterns; in fact, you may still be struggling. Whatever it is that haunted your past is intruding in your present. Is it your tendency to choose partners and friends who are bad for you? Is there a failing in your lover's past you need to forgive?There's something unhealthy at work here, and you don't feel entirely in control. The very aspects of your mate that you once admired and enjoyed are driving you away. You've lost tolerance for your sweetie. You're impatient. You're stuck in a rut. What's needed between you is compromise. You'll never agree on everything, nor will the ghosts of your past ever be put to rest. But if you can stop living life while looking in your rear view mirror, you are well placed to advance together.