You could start out on even ground, but over time it'll become apparent that you're polarized in how you live your lives. You need security within your friendships, much more than your pal will need. In fact, they'll need the opposite -- a lot of independence, freedom and space.
You'll have a hard time giving that to them; you might actually cling tighter the more they demand space, which will cause a rift between you. When it starts to seem like one of you isn't getting what you want, you'll naturally respond by insisting on it, instead of taking a softer approach. The interesting thing is, you stand to learn a lot from each other -- if you can. There are aspects to each of your approaches that would be valuable if combined with your friend's strengths, and it'll be up to you to figure out, together, what those aspects are. Once you do, you'll stand a much better chance of blending your strengths.