Romantically speaking, you're about to develop a split personality. On the one hand, you'll desire an easy relationship that just flows smoothly without any drama. But on the other hand, you'll want to get your way -- no matter what it takes.
And, quite frankly, this dichotomy is something you're going to have to deal with in other aspects of your life as well.If you find yourself in an argument (which you probably will) try to analyze it a bit and understand where your frustration is coming from. Are you really upset with your partner for forgetting to take out the garbage? Or is there some sort of control issue going on at a deeper level? You may have to resort to this sort of analysis on a regular basis. When something is worth sticking up for, you'll be a strong ally to have, willing to prove a point until the other side finally gives in. But this tactic could alienate you if you're fighting for a lost, unworthy or just plain wrong cause.Remember that appearances are not what they seem. Don't try to be something you're not, and only love people for who they are, not how they look. Avoid any tendencies toward intolerance and superiority. Learn from your encounters with others and see what you can do to improve your interactions.