At some point you're going to have to make a decision: Do you want a relationship, or do you want your freedom? If you're in a relationship now, or if you start one within the year, you'll be torn between trying to create real intimacy and escaping to independence. If you really want love to prevail, you'll have to resist the urge to jump ship as soon as things get even a little complicated.
It may be tempting to detach yourself emotionally, but you won't get anywhere romantically if you can't connect with your partner.All other aspects of your life will be a bit rocky as well, though not necessarily in a bad way. Your values will be up in the air, and you'll question everything you do, wondering if you've gone to far -- or if maybe you can push that envelope just a touch further. You'll face more commitment issues at work as you consider just how worthwhile that job really is. Financially, you may start to run into some trouble if you can't control your impulse buying, but then again, a spontaneous purchase on occasion can feel pretty good. Ultimately, you're going to have to allow yourself to be who you are. Your choices may seem more unusual than normal, but go with it, and just see what happens.